I read an article once that claimed that the average college student changes their major four times before graduating. I may be alone in this opinion, but I think that person was miscalculating. How do you start a fresh four years of life where everyone is telling you that “you can be whatever you want,” without wanting to give everything a try? I feel like I’ve had enough majors for everyone at Grand Valley!
I’ve never been one to answer a question with, “I don’t know.” Rather, I was quite the opposite. So, I waltzed into my freshman year with a very strong-headed idea that I was certain of what I was going to major in and what I wanted to do with the rest of my life.
Good one, self.
After taking my first semester of classes I realized the world of opportunity in front of me and I wanted to take it all in. I eventually got ahold of the course catalog and drove myself crazy with uncertainty. All the options made my head spin. I was a social work major, turned psych student, turned bio buff, turned pre-med pupil, turned neuroscience nerd (and don’t even get me started on minors). Changing majors is quite literally as easy as the push of a button.
All of the back and forth created a looming feeling of anxiety any time someone brought up the topic of education and career goals. They seem to be the only things people are interested in. It’s almost as if they’re the default conversation starter when meeting new people, and I know that I am just as guilty of asking everyone’s least favorite questions.
“What are you studying?” “What do you want to do with that?”
And I don’t mean to burst anyone’s bubbles, but we can’t all be Meredith Grey (but wouldn’t that be the life).
Now, countless advising appointments and mental breakdowns later, I’m confident of two things. First, we have advisors and mentors for a reason. They want us to utilize their expertise and pick their brains to figure out what’s next. Second, we’re meant to be unsure in college. We just have to fight through the confusion in order for it all to be worth it. People rarely come to a decision about the rest of their lives on the first try.
So here’s the conclusion I’ve come to: I’m never actually going to know for sure. And that’s okay! Even with the stress that comes with all of this decision-making, I think that’s the beauty of the phase of life we’re in right now. We get to choose the path we’re on, and we can either run down that path or take it one step at a time.
Jordan Beckman is a sophomore in the honors college studying Behavioral Neuroscience and Psychology. She is on leadership with Campus Ministry and spends her free time adventuring, petting dogs, and drinking coffee.